The relationship of husband and wife is the most important and of delicate nature. To make it strong and enjoyable the role of a wife can not be ruled out. In most communities, men are dominant having decision powers in daily life and are very much touchy about their ego and don’t like a contradiction. Although both partners are equally responsible if their relation breaks or becoming weak and boring.
Is Beauty all in all ?
Men naturally found impressed by women’s beauty, but only beauty is not sufficient for a wife to win her husband’s heart. The main reason is that always struggle is done for those things which are not available and after their availability, they become ordinary and charm less. So it is important to take care of your relations with husband in order to avoid them being weak or freeze. In early months and years of marriage, husband attraction and wife response remain ideal but with the passage of time, it gradually becomes loose.
Time and Tide Wait for None
After a time husband becomes busy in his outdoor activities and the wife gets busy with children and their necessities. Both have less time for them; it is the time where husband needs loving, caring and beautiful partner. And the wife has to ignore her husband due to increased responsibilities of her children and even she doesn’t care about her beauty. At this stage husband continually require the full attention of his wife but never express it openly and if he feels that he is not given due protocol, he expresses his rage in different ways. And the warm relations fall into weakness and coldness.
This situation is alarming for any sensible woman who wants the true love of his husband and to care his children at a time. Here are some guidelines for ladies in order to help them gaining love, caring and the warm relationship of their husbands.
Commonly it is observed that whenever it is tried to do so many works at a time then due to lack of full attention all the works completed remain substandard. Any work completed with full attention always gets the best results. The same law is observed in human life. Wives, who try to perform so many works of their children and husband at a time, they never pay full attention to their husbands. Even at bed time, they are thinking about daily activities, hence they cannot pay full attention to love making with their partners. So it is imperative to concentrate on love making during bed time with your husband in order to exchange full fun, enjoyment and mental relaxation.
Love is like a moon when it stops increasing, starts decreasing. All the efforts should be made to increase your love relations with your partners. Exchange loving words and gifts with each other and try to be the first in giving instead of waiting from another side. So much you try to give pleasure to others, more you get in response.
Prefer Your Partner
Always respect your husband, never do or talk any thing which may cause him insulting. Prefer your husband relation over all relations in order to get real happiness of heart and soul. Respect his sexual desire and try to fulfill it without any hesitation with full zeal and zest. Always enjoy with your partner and never make any lame excuse for avoiding love making.
Try to Be Partner Instead of Boss
Some ladies try to behave their husbands like servants; it is not fair morally. If your partner is suffering financial constraints; you should encourage him and try to ease him with every possible saving method. Ensure him that you are his partner of life (combination of happiness and sorrows) and co-operate with him.
Express Your Loving Feelings
Some ladies hesitate to express their loving feelings about their partners and feel that their love is being expressed by their obedience and hard working. No, it is wrong; love expression is much necessary with loving. Always pay compliments with loving words, never forget to say thank you, I love you, even for minor presentations.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Famous Martin Luther King Quote
Dress up for Him
Try to dress up in the evening for your partner, use perfumes, dressing and light makeup with freshness. Then meet your husband in the bed, and show him that all it is for him you did. Before making love ensure the room door is locked in order to avoid any interruption of family members or children. It will give you a sense of security and satisfaction essentially required during love time.
Avoid Communication Gap
Communication gap may raise confusions and misconception between partners. Always try to discuss all issues with your husband and clear any confusion if arise well in time. Never thing negative and always try to avoid suspicious about your partner; it is poison for relations. It is said, love and suspicious cannot remain together in one heart.