Is it common to have a gym crush? One recent Bowflex survey even reports that 34 percent of men have had a crush on their trainer. “The gym could be both the best and the worst place to meet someone, if we want to go black and white,” says Leora Manischewitz, Psy.
Should I ask out my gym crush? Be direct with your gym crush
Walk up to your gym crush, hit on them and ask them out. You may get a few dates out of it, but more importantly you’ll be proud of yourself, because so few actually take that step. This is a form of empowerment and goal achievement. There is no romantic valor in playing it safe.
How do you get a crush at the gym?
- Set The Groundwork. Since the gym isn’t the most traditional pick-up place, it’s not going to work like it does at the bar on Friday nights.
- Position Yourself.
- See (And Wear) Red.
- Be Approachable.
- Give The Eyes A Workout, Ears A Rest.
- Pick Wisely.
How do you flirt with a gym crush? Be pleasant — Crack a joke, give him/her a smile, and make small talk. That’s the best way to flirt anywhere, and it works as much at the gym as it will at a bar or club. There’s no magic trick for flirting with a gym guy or girl; just be pleasant and friendly.